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June 9, 2009 - 10:52 am
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when u approach your mate

That has a completely different meaning here. For a second I though:

`What the fuck is going on here, I thought I was horny, coming onto a friend like that just strange. Wait a sec matey, yank, mate= partner… you tosser`

There really needs to be a dictionary to translate what yanks says. Laugh Laugh Laugh

Other than that, yes be scared and buy me that aeroplane ticket. Laugh Laugh Laugh

i think someone needs to make BDSM or SM intstructional vids....how funny would that be ??

Been there done that and sent you the link as well love. 😉

I don’t know if it’s me or what but I live by the motto:

Who dares wins.

So fear of what others think isn’t really a problem to me. Fear of losing isn’t a problem either.

I’m a glorified pimp and I really don’t give a shit for fuck sake, that’s what I’m like and I wouldn’t change it for anything.

Fine there are times where my attitude gets me into trouble but for the most part it’s fine and it works.

If you can’t risk things where the fucking point. It might be reckless and it’s not something everyone should live by but for me it’s the right way to go.

If you’re not strong and you don’t have a quite arrogance about you ( 😎 ) it won’t work for you. 😉

Edit: Poor spelling. Embarassed Laugh Laugh

Edit: Turns out it was spelt fine after all. that's what happen when you stop going to school at 11. Embarassed Laugh Laugh

Lashmar you tosser. 🙄

Read between the lies

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June 9, 2009 - 10:31 pm
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"pandasex" wrote: I respect that i dont write anything my husband does to me 😎 of course also in fear of any comments lash would have Laugh

I dont know if i could pay anyone to explore with myself??
i would feel connecting too much with them i guess. I could never ever be sub with a woman....when i am with women im a top for sure....but not with guys. I have explored being dom with a guy and its just boring to me. Guys liked it but it felt like a job to me and than just wasnt fun at all.
its always been funny to me that we get married (supposedly something that means above all) yet when u approach your mate to do something kinky you are either scared to get turned down or even worse they dont have enough trust with you to explore??? I thought we were above everyone else?? Laugh it bothers me when i feel like we were supposed to be so together but only conditionaley ??

i think someone needs to make BDSM or SM intstructional vids....how funny would that be ??

It's too easy for me to not get attached. I think it has a lot to do with why I like to be dominated. I feel detached from things/people in general, so to be treated like a slave is not all that difficult for me. Enticing even.

As far as with someone you are with. My wife already knew I was good and ready from day one, so I just had to wait for when she was ready. The only thing I can say is make your desires known and as you mentioned the worse that can happen is you find out the partner is not interested. But given time, maybe they will in the future, or you might discover something else that they may want from you.

"That's the problem with drinking ... If something bad happens you drink in attempt to forget; if something good happens you drink in order to celebrate; and if nothing happens you drink to make something happen." -- Charles Bukowski

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June 10, 2009 - 8:42 pm
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well that sounds like u have a good healthy relationship

cograts its a rare thing these days

how did u figure out it might be something u would like?? i mean did u go somewhere and see it or watch a vid and say i want to try that?

I had weird neighbors i taped a session for them once....but they were like hardcore it was kind of disturbing. They liked to post their own vids on the net....crazy shit btw

BURNING MAN, burning man, BuRnInG mAn,

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"pandasex" wrote: well that sounds like u have a good healthy relationship

cograts its a rare thing these days

how did u figure out it might be something u would like?? i mean did u go somewhere and see it or watch a vid and say i want to try that?

I had weird neighbors i taped a session for them once....but they were like hardcore it was kind of disturbing. They liked to post their own vids on the net....crazy sh*t btw

I personally just went after it. I hadn't had any sexual experiences with women before I went to a mistress. I hadn't done much to learn about it, as it was kind of pre-internet back then. I just had a feeling that it was what I wanted. Maybe not everyone is as lucky, I consider myself to be, to just know that is what they want out of a relationship.

I had to do some research to where dominatrix dungeons were, so in that I learned other things that I have experimented with. I had a friend that was into or a part of almost everything that a parent would want their children to not know about, so I got my information that way. I just went in for a first session and after that I was hooked. Sometimes literally. 😀

"That's the problem with drinking ... If something bad happens you drink in attempt to forget; if something good happens you drink in order to celebrate; and if nothing happens you drink to make something happen." -- Charles Bukowski

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June 11, 2009 - 12:52 am
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so what was the craziest thing your mistress ever made u do ❓

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"pandasex" wrote: so what was the craziest thing your mistress ever made u do ❓

Well if you mean like pain tolerance, then it would be nipple clamps. I am a complete sissy when my nipples are in pain.

As far as what I thought was the most bizzare but enjoyed, I would say erotic asphyxia. I really didn't want to do it, and wasn't ready for it, but I didn't let on and let her do it. And the surprising stimulation I got from it made me not want it anymore. I knew I would want to take it further and further. Like drinking to get a good buzz and you keep drinking cause you think it will get better, but it doesn't and then you feel like shit in the morning. Except with this it can kill you if your partner isn't careful.

I never did it to myself though, mostly for that reason.

"That's the problem with drinking ... If something bad happens you drink in attempt to forget; if something good happens you drink in order to celebrate; and if nothing happens you drink to make something happen." -- Charles Bukowski

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yeah i passed out completely and the next day i was really sore. It was good but i dont know if the after ward is worth the during. No i wouldnt think of doing it myself either. Its dangerous bottom line. i dont think i could do that to anyone else i would be afraid of having some sort of accident Laugh

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"pandasex" wrote: yeah i passed out completely and the next day i was really sore. It was good but i dont know if the after ward is worth the during. No i wouldnt think of doing it myself either. Its dangerous bottom line. i dont think i could do that to anyone else i would be afraid of having some sort of accident Laugh

I agree, I would never do it to someone else either. But she was a professional, so even though I initially had my doubts, I still somewhere inside me had a inkling of trust in her.

Being crusified is kind of a strange experience as well. You wouldn't believe the kind of effort you have to make to keep from crushing your lungs under your own weight.

"That's the problem with drinking ... If something bad happens you drink in attempt to forget; if something good happens you drink in order to celebrate; and if nothing happens you drink to make something happen." -- Charles Bukowski

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he was a marine does that count as a professional Laugh Laugh Laugh

no never been in that position i would probably not be able to go through with the weight and lung thing....i have heard stories...

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"pandasex" wrote: he was a marine does that count as a professional Laugh Laugh Laugh

no never been in that position i would probably not be able to go through with the weight and lung thing....i have heard stories...

I don't blame you. It's the only time I uttered our safety word. I was tired and exhaused after that session.

"That's the problem with drinking ... If something bad happens you drink in attempt to forget; if something good happens you drink in order to celebrate; and if nothing happens you drink to make something happen." -- Charles Bukowski

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