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Is Sex Addiction Real?
April 13, 2010
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And in other words, mael, I can spot a sexually bored and boring person. I'd fit yourself in there along with them to be honest mael, you may like sex and 3 girlfriends, but someone who is very much not sexually boring, realises the partner does not need to change, that their sexual expression of themselves can....without it ever getting boring by any means.

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
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memory works both ways.”
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April 13, 2010
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. I cannot even get sexually bored on my own.

lol

ditto to that..heck some of my funnest times have been alone

Willie Wonka quotes..
What is this Wonka, some kind of funhouse?
Why? Are you having fun?
A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams

April 13, 2010
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hehe bionic.

You know I find someone who needs multiple sex partners to be in the group of sexually boring, because then it becomes clear to me that person has greater expectations of others sexually- It takes alot more to please them sexually than what they themselves can offer, maybe like sex vampires, instead of energy vampires. Laugh They want from others what they do not have, 'excitement' 'thrill' etc etc.

Honestly, nothing is sexier than a man that has a high sex drive, and ability to enjoy themselves, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, etc to love his own exression and the endless growth and change of those things within it. Cheaters and sexually boring people, lack imagination, creativity, alot of the things that count.

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
astonishment. “I never heard of such a thing!”
“—but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s
memory works both ways.”
— Lewis Carroll, Through the Looking-Glass

April 13, 2010
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Kidding aside, I think there are young guys that are very much good men.

so very ^ true ^ these words.....sandra..(a.k.a.pete)

as well as there are young women who are truly wise nad beautiful in spirit...I won't hold a persons age against them..in either direction...

and ther are a few young guns i could so fall in love with..(as well as old guns)....bt..sometimes you just hope there is reincarnation...

lash and I have it worked out, so we'll be a lil closer in age, next round..if thats the case 😕 ....and then we'll have a hot passionate romance... 😎 Laugh 😀

I told him to look for the girl with jet black hair..very milky pale skin...and slightly aqua colored eyes....(gonna get a lil fussier bout my parents next round in..if I have the choice... Laugh 😎 😉 )

it nice to book romances for future lives....just in case it happens...something to look forward to 😉 😎 Laugh Laugh 😯 😀 😀

April 13, 2010
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"sandra" wrote: And in other words, mael, I can spot a sexually bored and boring person. I'd fit yourself in there along with them to be honest mael, you may like sex and 3 girlfriends, but someone who is very much not sexually boring, realises the partner does not need to change, that their sexual expression of themselves can....without it ever getting boring by any means.

* Imagine on. Laugh

April 13, 2010
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"bionic" wrote:

. I cannot even get sexually bored on my own.

lol

ditto to that..heck some of my funnest times have been alone

So you see guys!!!

C'mon! You'll have to discover what the ladies like or they'll all be going at it solo.

One useful outcome of a young lady with an older man is that after they finish, the lady will soon tell if another guy on the scene is worth investigating. This is good really, as those young guys who 'get it' will encourage the others who don't 'get it' to shape up - or to work on their arm muscles. Laugh

I have always been interested in something called 'spiritual-sex.' That's how come I have to make a big effort to lose them. - Though it must be said that I'd not waste any time with the likes of what most US broads have become. - A female who is not tethered to popular fashions and is open-minded stands a good chance of avoiding ending up living as trailor-trash with three kids from different fathers, or living alone with a cat - as is the American way. Hey Sandra! You're already there aren't you? Laugh

April 13, 2010
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A female who is not tethered to popular fashions and is open-minded stands a good chance of avoiding ending up living as trailor-trash with three kids from different fathers, or living alone with a cat - as is the American way. Hey Sandra! You're already there aren't you?

I personally lurvs what i be...very honest with myself...unlike other jusgemental souls...who wish to think their' superiority is vital....to the lesser lower minds...and it demands of them ,the patience to teach the wisdom of their fcked up ancestry...the "ways"...of ...????...truth?....light?...honour ??..dignity?....

look closely with your 9 D glasses people.....c'mon....we can call a spade a spade..and a heart a heart..can we not ..?

now whixh house are we playing in???..always helps to know the house rules...the one eyed jacks sort of like it that way....

top of the rest of the day to yaz all

April 13, 2010
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"mael" wrote: [quote="bionic"]

. I cannot even get sexually bored on my own.

lol

ditto to that..heck some of my funnest times have been alone

So you see guys!!!

C'mon! You'll have to discover what the ladies like or they'll all be going at it solo.

One useful outcome of a young lady with an older man is that after they finish, the lady will soon tell if another guy on the scene is worth investigating. This is good really, as those young guys who 'get it' will encourage the others who don't 'get it' to shape up - or to work on their arm muscles. Laugh

You really think things out now don't you. Laugh

I have always been interested in something called 'spiritual-sex.' That's how come I have to make a big effort to lose them.

Have to tell you mael, I admire your honesty. You can be a complete jerk at times, but honesty is always admirable. 😕 :mrgreen:

- Though it must be said that I'd not waste any time with the likes of what most US broads have become. -

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A female who is not tethered to popular fashions and is open-minded stands a good chance of avoiding ending up living as trailor-trash with three kids from different fathers, or living alone with a cat - as is the American way. Hey Sandra! You're already there aren't you? Laugh

I love popular fashions in some senses, I'm still open minded for the most part, I do not live in a trailor (or think down upon those who may), or have three kids by three different fathers (or think down upon those who may), and cats I do not like. Actually, last week, I found out my father lost my two Dogs. Cry My dog was still my responsibility I understand, but he was watching over them for me, and now they are gone.

I've had pitcures of them up since I came back here.
http://community.theblackvault.com/sandra
Cry Cry Cry

Its been a really hard week with that. I think about it and cry.

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
astonishment. “I never heard of such a thing!”
“—but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s
memory works both ways.”
— Lewis Carroll, Through the Looking-Glass

April 13, 2010
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Bionic, I'm right there with ya. 😀

Sandra, sorry to hear about your dogs. Cry

April 13, 2010
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"sandra" wrote: [You really think things out now don't you. Laugh

* It's an observation more than a thought.

Have to tell you mael, I admire your honesty. You can be a complete jerk at times, but honesty is always admirable. 😕 :mrgreen:

* I am aware of how I am received. I have nothing to lose by saying it from my perspective.

* Maybe some pussy-whipped manginas can get a clue on what to do from my POV? I certainly hope so. 😀

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