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Postby taraf » Fri Apr 20, 2012 4:01 pm

HEY SO MY MAN IS IN JAIL AND THIS IS THE 3RD OR 4TH TIME IN HIS LIFE........IV BEEN W HIM 8 MTHS BEFORE HE LEFT.......HES BEEN IN AND OUT OF PRISON ALL HIS LIFE.......COMMON SENCE SHOULD TELL ME HE WONT CHANGR RIGHT???????????????
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Postby ricardo » Fri Apr 20, 2012 5:26 pm

' truth ' be told Taraf , I sympathize w/ your situation. I wish I had the

experience to tell you more . here are a few key points I've learned over time.

1) what higher purpose does love not serve ?

2) trust / communication are very very important.

3) never 'disguise' true feelings ... Taraf

4) love transcends borders / cultures / and has the power to amend ***

5) you matter (healing may take time)

best wishes ,

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Postby greeney2 » Fri Apr 20, 2012 7:03 pm

What is he in for and for how long? Sounds like one more time, would be life changing. Do you really want an honest answer to this question? You may not like what you hear, so I will wait for you to ask for a complete answer.
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Postby ricardo » Sat Apr 21, 2012 1:42 am

taraf wrote:HEY SO MY MAN IS IN JAIL AND THIS IS THE 3RD OR 4TH TIME IN HIS LIFE........IV BEEN W HIM 8 MTHS BEFORE HE LEFT.......HES BEEN IN AND OUT OF PRISON ALL HIS LIFE.......COMMON SENCE SHOULD TELL ME HE WONT CHANGR RIGHT???????????????



'truth' be told Taraf . thanks for the heads up . I think. ;)
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Postby bionic » Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:24 am

what is he in for? breaking and entering? theft? dealing drugs? is he a drug addict?
I think, maybe you send him off with love in your heart, work to complete yourself..and when ready.. find someone else that adds to your life experience..blessings
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Postby chiselray » Wed Nov 21, 2012 5:16 am

taraf wrote:HEY SO MY MAN IS IN JAIL AND THIS IS THE 3RD OR 4TH TIME IN HIS LIFE........IV BEEN W HIM 8 MTHS BEFORE HE LEFT.......HES BEEN IN AND OUT OF PRISON ALL HIS LIFE.......COMMON SENCE SHOULD TELL ME HE WONT CHANGR RIGHT???????????????


It is like rolling the dice with some people,in and out of jail ,unless you know they have a better than average chance of not getting caught next time,i'd expect the worse .

Sorry
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