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Re: Be honest

Postby greeney2 » Thu Jun 03, 2010 9:05 pm

Wise move backing way off Nixxie. I;m sure you are right about the wife, and you would think she would clean up her act in front of his coworkers, not to humiliate him. You did the right thing including letting him know about waiting. I'm sure the poor guy is miserable, but this is a walk he should take alone, and not drag someone like you into it, especially when you work for him.
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Re: Be honest

Postby Guest » Fri Jun 11, 2010 8:44 am

bionic wrote:They play all the cards...
the 'pity me in my sad marriage' card.
the "you are the most beautiful, inspiring woman i have ever met" card
they play the 'My wife and I have an unwritten understanding' card..
the "we are seperated but living together' card
The 'I love my wife but she doesn't love me, poor me' card
and on and on...


Classics! :lol:

On-topic: I can't say that I average any specific time per week, day or month. I look at porn sporadically, I know what I like and what I'd like to see so I guess I spend less time looking. Usually late at night though, so I can't spend much time looking at it as it'll make it harder for me to wake up the next morning. Besides, it's pretty much the only time I can view it as my computer is right between the livingroom and kitchen. Can't have that stuff on my screen with the kids walking around. :o
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Re: Be honest

Postby CodeBlack » Fri Jun 11, 2010 4:32 pm

This wanker thread still going? That's what I call stamina.
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Re: Be honest

Postby mrshumphreys » Mon Sep 06, 2010 5:13 pm

Nixxie wrote:We're friends John. I've met his wife. To be absolutely truthful I didn't like her one bit- not because I fancy him- she was very bitchy and a bit of a cow to me and to everyone. It was one of the girls leaving do tuesday so everyone went out for a meal and brought their partners along and she was just hideous the entire night. I understand now where he was coming from but i've made it absolutely clear that while i'm willing to be friends with him, i've no desire to do anything else while he's still a married man. He's asked if i'd be willing to reconsider that position once the divorce is over. I didn't say anything other than that i wouldn't wait for him.



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