Only through your own intuition.
Once you begin to utilize intution more and more, you need less of an authority figure on what is right or wrong judgement- because you no longer need to think about what it is you are thinking about when you are thinking it- you have belief in who you are.
No one else needs to be an authority figure of anykind, however we never want to see things in equal measure. And there is only one route to get to those things, that is through being loving...unconditional.
And you're right- society deems punishment- Godly punishment, from a human cause.
Very interesting isn't it. What would happen without humans condemning other humans.
We'll find that out.
“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
astonishment. “I never heard of such a thing!”
“—but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s
memory works both ways.”
— Lewis Carroll, Through the Looking-Glass