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Postby adamwarlock2099 » Sat May 30, 2009 10:32 am

Being a submissive myself I can vouche that some mistresses/masters can form a considerate attachment to their slaves. But a submissive/dominate relationship is, like many relationships, is symbiotic. One gets as much from the experience of the other. If the submissive truly enjoys the pain/discomfort, then the dominate, knowing they are pleased can dispense with said pain.

It's about each person's comfort, or I guess in this case, discomfort level. If you have been with the same dominate/submissive, then the relationship develops where each knows what each person's top tier is and can therefore make the relationship work.

I can't give you much information on switches. They are a rare breed, and I have not ever met one that is truly a switch.
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Postby Lashmar » Sun May 31, 2009 2:00 am

F*** Saturos and BS are going to have fun with this :roll: :lol: . All I will say is I don’t do pain, if I’m stung by a stinging nettle I’m rolling around the floor in agony for five minuets. :cry: :cry: :cry:

Anyway I’ve been doing research into sub/dom life, I’ve come up with a good idea that I need to look in into and then talk to panda about it, stick around because I’ll need someone from the inside to talk to it about as well. :D
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Postby Dark-Samus » Sun May 31, 2009 5:44 am

I don´t think I have much more obvious things to add... :lol: :lol:
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Postby BloodStone » Sun May 31, 2009 11:34 am

F*** Saturos and BS are going to have fun with this


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Postby pandasex » Sun May 31, 2009 3:13 pm

[quote="adamwarlock2099"]Being a submissive myself I can vouche that some mistresses/masters can form a considerate attachment to their slaves. But a submissive/dominate relationship is, like many relationships, is symbiotic. One gets as much from the experience of the other. If the submissive truly enjoys the pain/discomfort, then the dominate, knowing they are pleased can dispense with said pain.

It's about each person's comfort, or I guess in this case, discomfort level. If you have been with the same dominate/submissive, then the relationship develops where each knows what each person's top tier is and can therefore make the relationship work.

I can't give you much information on switches. They are a rare breed, and I have not ever met one that is truly a switch.[/quote]



Keep going....im listening


I think there are true switches...they are usually bisexual as well though. The trust that is involved with the BDSM relationship is what builds the relationship. I think that is what they were getting at with the article.

you sound like you are educated in the field we should talk more :D
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Postby Lashmar » Mon Jun 01, 2009 12:49 am

Dark-Samus wrote:I don´t think I have much more obvious things to add... :lol: :lol:


And when I’ve earned my money from my ideas I’ll buy you both an airplane ticket so you can go F*** each other. ;) :lol: :lol:
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Postby Lashmar » Mon Jun 01, 2009 2:43 am

I’ve got this image of you two in a room together now. If we wait for the BV picnic mael will be there as well. :lol: :lol: :lol:

SRO could bring his sister, and I’ll have a brilliant time laughing at Saturos and mael. ;) :lol: :lol:
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Postby Dark-Samus » Mon Jun 01, 2009 3:30 am

Me and Mael would combine our ideologies on people and...take you down into the bed...and pound your ass with our "ideas" :lol: :lol: :lol: :mrgreen: ;) ;)
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Postby Lashmar » Mon Jun 01, 2009 4:17 am

You’d enjoy that as well you sick bastard. :shock: :x

anyway I run faster than you two. And mael will be off trying to kill G2 and all the jews on the BV.

Could you imagine a black Jewish lesbian that’s a feminist as well? :shock: That would be every thing that he hates. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Nigger and a Jew would be bad but a gay feminist that’s black and Jewish as well :shock: . F*** just run away from that. :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Postby Dark-Samus » Mon Jun 01, 2009 5:10 am

You’d enjoy that as well you sick bastard.

anyway I run faster than you two. And mael will be off trying to kill G2 and all the jews on the BV.


Awww Lassie got angry? :lol:
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