Men are so funny.
My H is always telling me, "Please believe me..men are pigs..and don't take it personally..it is what it is"
I actually feel this trend in women, a bit, as well (myself , these days, I think)I had heard meopuse..getting close to it kills a womans sexuality. I call BS on that!! One of my best frineds..the sme. I believe the only women that turn off on sex at menopause are women that never got (or gave themselves)the chance to free themselves in that way.
but..I digress
oh well
f it
I should write a book about sexuality. Especially in men and women that are getting older. It would sell like hot cakes. I actually kinda, know a writer who really should, but I doubt he has the guts to.

“Whether you sniff it smoke it eat it or shove it up your ass the result is the same: addiction.”
― William S. Burroughs
(love&forgive yourself..and everyone else)