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Postby sandra » Fri Jun 17, 2011 9:49 am

"A Cuddle Party is: A structured, safe workshop on boundaries, communication, intimacy and affection. A drug and alcohol-free way to meet fascinating people in a relaxing environment. A laboratory where you can experiment with what makes you feel safe and feel good.

This playful, fun workshop has been a place for people to rediscover non-sexual touch and affection, a space to reframe assumptions about men and women, and a great networking event to meet new friends, roommates, business partners and significant others.

Can Cuddle Party restore your faith in humanity? It just might. But at the very least, you’ll have a great time, and leave feeling relaxed and inspired."



http://www.cuddleparty.com/


CUDDLE PARTY RULES:

"ARRIVE ON TIME: Once we begin the Welcome Circle and orientation, sorry, we can let no one enter late. This creates comfort and safety by knowing that everyone is on the same page about rules and expectations.

WHAT TO WEAR: Pajamas – nothing too risqué. Think more comfy than sexy. (More drawstrings, less lace! No shorts.)

WHAT TO BRING: Sorry, no liquor folks. Juice or sparkling cider is always welcome. A pillow or stuffed animal if you like. Otherwise, just bring your smiling self.

STICK TO THE RULES:

Pajamas stay on the whole time.
You don’t have to cuddle anyone at a Cuddle Party, ever.
You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)
If you’re a yes, say YES. If you’re a no, say NO.
If you’re a maybe, say NO.
You are encouraged to change your mind.
Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.
Get your Cuddle Party Facilitator or the Cuddle Assistant if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the Cuddle Party.
Tears and laughter are both welcome.
Respect people’s privacy when sharing about Cuddle Parties.
Keep the Cuddle space tidy"


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Are you FOR or AGAINST cuddle partys?

What in the fluff in the pillows is going on here. :lol:
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Postby at1with0 » Fri Jun 17, 2011 1:44 pm

sandra wrote:What in the fluff in the pillows is going on here. :lol:

Good question!
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Postby adamwarlock2099 » Fri Jun 17, 2011 1:58 pm

That is so totally not for me. I don't like people touching me in the first place. My wife has free range to touch anything she wants of me, but that's it. Hugs are even uncomfortable to me, unless coming from my wife. And there are some of her family members that like to hug waaaay too much.
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Postby bionic » Fri Jun 17, 2011 6:48 pm

cuddle parties sound awesome to me..duh...winning
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Postby frrostedman » Sun Jul 03, 2011 5:01 pm

If I wasn't married, I'd be all about this. I like it.


duh.... winning!
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Postby bionic » Mon Jul 04, 2011 1:17 am

you could have a cuddle party with your wife
it'd be like taking a marriage vitamin or some such thing
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