The Black Vault

If someone cheated on me, his life would be forever in my list and I would throw him out like a garbage.
I don't give anyone a second chance.

Well that's YOU Sheye and what's right for YOU may not be what's right for ME.
Things take time..whether we make it or not..there is a process.
I am pragmatic and do not believe in romantic notions..less now than I even did before.
Look...
You are entitled to live YOUR life as you wish and you are entitled to your opinions.
As I am mine.


DarkSamus..
People are so good at saying what they would do..until it happens to them..then they are tested.
Your energy feels younger to me..so..
If it hasn't happened yet..most probably your time will come (you will cheat or be cheated on, both sides land up hurting for it)..if that's the case..when it happens you will remember me and my posts and your posts here..and hopefully some of what I have posted will give you a sense of solidarity and help you to feel less alone with it.

But this is a thread about sexual addiction and not cheating, per say..my smart alec comment about my H in my song tribute to Mael, and Sheye's questioning, and my answering have taken it off track a bit..so any more I have to say about infidelity, my H's or anyone's I will try my best to keep on my "douchebag" thread. (except the occasional smart alec comment here and there)
That way, for those who it might make too uncomfortable..they will know to avoid that thread

bionic wrote:But this is a thread about sexual addiction and not cheating, per say..my smart alec comment about my H in my song tribute to Mael, and Sheye's questioning, and my answering have taken it off track a bit..so any more I have to say about infidelity, my H's or anyone's I will try my best to keep on my "douchebag" thread. (except the occasional smart alec comment here and there)
That way, for those who it might make too uncomfortable..they will know to avoid that thread

This is my thread I started, and I am moderator of modern relationships and social issues, you are absolutely fine of course! What wrong is there in the truth?
What you shared was the truth of how you feel and what is going on in your life, someone like me couldn't appreciate more. My only advice, which is clear you don't need anyways but I'll still say it for the sake of truth, is to not take advice from someone who knows near to nothing about respect, ...about love and wisdom.

This thread was built for these purposes(my intent), of what most relationships are experiencing and enduring, whether broken or built upon, the truth and the lies of them, and our honest perspectives of how they effect our lives and society, which you have added graciously to.
And I would ask that you do not refrain from adding more of that, if you further wish, whenever.

Dark-Samus wrote:If someone cheated on me, his life would be forever in my list and I would throw him out like a garbage.
I don't give anyone a second chance.

Now are you sure about that? Now what if they were really good?
Really sneaky, like sheye?

Although shes more like a black cat walking accross my lawn.
I got you.

neva eva trust anyone who says they love "unconditionally"..

they know not REAL LOVE...

it has conditions.....and always will

I stand by that honesty...now...and forever...

now..back to ......

Who's calling who a douchebag???

Did someone tell me..that Jesus actually screwed women and men....

cause they have "special" bible that others don't know about???

damni t..that Lucifer just doesn't give up ..on perverting any kind of truth...

so that ...God may LOVE ALL SIN..UNCONDITIONALLY..

pffft....wow...

they need better teachers and mods on here...

don't you think???

when we are trying to get down to TRUTH..

a least a lil bit?


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Su42dX0JO_M&NR=1

Sandra,
You are a kind person and a brave one.
I realize Sheye is just in one of her spiteful moods.
I saw her striking out all over the place the last few days, here.
You know her better than me..I see you two have a sort of history..so i try to stay out of ya'lls stuff in hopes she won't come after me, too, so much..
I am not as brave as you
Thanks Lady..you are one

sheye wrote:]Did someone tell me..that Jesus actually screwed women and men....

cause they have "special" bible that others don't know about???

Look at the filth that comes out of your mouth, Like I said, I got you.
And this time, I'll shake everything you got. Which is nothing I haven't had 100times more.
You mistake ego, for the truth. Now let me have your sweet-tarts.

And stay on topic while you're doing it, or I'll delete your posts.

Who's calling who a douchebag???

I was refering to my Douchebag thread, this section..it's on cheaters.

Is that why you are thrashing about on this?
It hits home?
Cheater? Cheated on?

You are in a very angry mood these last few days on the board.
What is up?

bionic wrote:Sandra,
You are a kind person and a brave one.
I realize Sheye is just in one of her spiteful moods.
I saw her striking out all over the place the last few days, here.
You know her better than me..I see you two have a sort of history..so i try to stay out of ya'lls stuff in hopes she won't come after me, too, so much..
I am not as brave as you
Thanks Lady..you are one

Well, sometimes, its necessary to go where others don't want to.
And sheye is not ignorant of herself, not whatsoever.
But she underminds others around her, and I only allow that soo much.

But keep on keepin on, because I sure enjoy the experience you share in your relationship and in your life, very much. It also allows me to learn more about myself, how I can apply things that happen with others to my own reasoning, in search of the truth for other things that relate to certain behaviors etc.