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How do you deal with a friends husband coming on to you?

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Postby sheye » Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:06 am

Men have two weeks maternity leave yet women have a year and feminists have begrudged us men having three months off for it...that is what "equality" is to these women, it's all Equal so long as they're being treated better than everyone else.


move to some Canada Lash, its equally a year for either gender of parent...
meaning combined a working couple can each take a year off,in turns to look after their newborn...( I could be wrong though..maybe its 6 months each, or whatever they want to split it up to, to combine 1 year.

I think I'm right about it..its changed a lot here ,I know that lash..fathers are given the very same rights ine maternity leave as mothers are..they are seen as a valued parent,as well they should be...because they are vital in the upbringing of a child,and their role in the family.

I do understand your hatred for "men bashing", same as "women" bashing can get silly as well.

All men do not act the same,all men.do not stay the same, much like women,,,,I get what you mean,but I think personally if you wanted to show her ...that you were right about this..and she was wrong..

Treat her like gold lash, be charming, sensitive, polite, and show her how wrong she really is...I know you could do that.. 8-)

not n a fake way either lash, but a sincere way of being a "gentlemen"

I think that is what she is looking for,perhaps?
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Postby Lashmar » Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:18 am

She can look for what ever she wants but she's not getting it. I treat other women as you said when I'm around her but I wont treat her as such.

In time she will understand that I will treat her better when she's earned it and only when she's earned it.
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Postby Dark-Samus » Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:02 am

I treat others as they treat me.
That is enough.

Love or Hate doesn't play any role in it for me.
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Postby Lashmar » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:03 am

agreed. :D
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Postby sheye » Tue Feb 23, 2010 10:06 am

hey lash....how do I treat you?

in your perception,I know I can be a little hard on yaz at times...but...

all in all ..how would you describe our relationship?
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Postby Lashmar » Tue Feb 23, 2010 12:18 pm

sheye wrote:I know I can be a little hard on yaz at times


Only a little? :P :lol: :lol:

how would you describe our relationship


I have no idea to be honest. I don't like trying to describe relationships because I have the emotional range of a teaspoon. :lol: :lol: :lol: I feel like there are times when you push against me for no real reason but at the same time there are times I push you for no real reason.

Why do you ask? How do you describe it?



Edit:: you also apologise at for it. :llol:
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Postby sheye » Tue Feb 23, 2010 1:42 pm

Why do you ask? How do you describe it?
I would desribe it as a friendship in progress...
learning to trust each other..

your kindness to me on this website..was why I decided to trust you...
(well..when I first gone on here anyhow..you been a bit of a shmmuck..some other times....but I'm thinking I must have nic pads on me eyelids and I can't see staight sometimes)

anyhooz..thats how I'd describe it..a friendship in progress...

sound good to you??.. :? ;) :D
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Postby Lashmar » Tue Feb 23, 2010 3:34 pm

sounds fair enough to me.



you been a bit of a shmmuck..some other times


Stones and glasshouses my dear. ;) :lol: :lol:
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Postby sheye » Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:14 pm

Stones and glasshouses my dear.



hunh???who's got the "stones"...and who the hell lives in glass houses these dayz???

there you go again being "cryptic"

wow..I just got a bog shot of ELECRICITY....coming through my PC???

yikes...you throwing thunderbolts at me lash....??

they that throw thunderbolts..shall not aim at electric housing units...

I like the blue danube bit..listening to it right now..sort of long..but nice..
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Postby Lashmar » Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:21 pm

My dear it was a joke. :lol: :lol: :lol:
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