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Postby Snug » Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:03 am

So amongst everything we do nowadays Homosexuality seems to be there. This seems to be mainly amongst men/men relationships. You go to the local mall and there are these guys in inappropriate attire and talking like females. Loud and around many people including children.
You Play your favorite video games there are gay men on the microphones spamming it up talking like a girl/sissy. You have "gay parades" Which is basically a 18+ Sex Show performed in public.
So why is sexual role play inappropriate in public for everything else other then homosexuality?

Seriously how many people who enjoy Sadomasochism or some other fetish do you see in public wearing costume and roleplaying? How many do you see around children? How many business owners do you know that would allow that in there store? Why in the hell has society turned a blind eye on homosexuality and aloud pornography to roam our streets?

It is sickening and wrong in so many ways and it does not have to be. Being homosexual does not mean your forced to be a disrespectful twat. You can be gay and show respect. I know 2 friends who talk 100% normal and wear normal clothes when in public, but behind closed doors or amongst each other they are 100% gay and admit to being into all the stereotypical stuff. So why can they do it yet no other homosexuals can? Its disrespectful and most gay people deserve all the hate that is thrown at them because they show no respect in turn.

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Postby sandra » Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:24 am

Honestly I have not a clue what you are talking about. Mainly due to living down town, in the middle of down town, a large city. Gay people are the least noticed I'd say. You get alot of freaks, just freaks in general. And they do a whole parade about it trust me. Inner City I see alot of people close to costume wear on a regular basis. As far as the other stuff, seems like you focus in on those things.....?

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Postby Lashmar » Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:13 am

Snug wrote:You go to the local mall and there are these guys in inappropriate attire and talking like females. Loud and around many people including children.


Such as? What is inappropriate attire for starters?

You have "gay parades" Which is basically a 18+ Sex Show performed in public.


I don't completely know what you're going on about there to be honest.

Seriously how many people who enjoy Sadomasochism or some other fetish do you see in public wearing costume and roleplaying?


I agree that the gays are very outward in showing it but there are a lot of signs from straight couples when you know what you’re looking for.

There are many, many signs. There is a tattoo, I can’t remember what it’s called but I know what it looks like, that many subs have on either ankle or wrist. Solid black tattoos, normally on the subs left bicep and her/his master’s right bicep, with a segment (about half inch long) pushed out of alignment so it appears that it’s a lock. Necklaces are the most common (why do you think men by them for women’s birthdays ;) ) though and you see almost all of them wearing them.

As for role-playing. There are many little games we play that you wouldn’t notice. Little things like pinching the webbing in-between the thumb and hand. Putting thoughts into the Subs head is a good one, anything to make her/him feel like everyone knows what you just said is good, and you do that by whispering in her/his ear.

Clothes are interesting though. I agree that Queers go out of their way to stand out in the way they dress. You couldn't tell a straight couple just by looking at their clothes, it's the little things underneath that we don't see. It is the `unseen` factor that is the fun. Half the fun is convincing the Sub that everyone knows what’s going on even though they haven’t a clue.


I agree with you 100% that Gays go way over the top. Personally I find it distasteful, mainly because they don’t actually get the point of DS/SM, and I fully understand why it makes people uncomfortable (F*** it makes me uncomfortable at times).

I don’t think many queers are into DS/SM though for the simple fact that there are more Male Subs than Female Domme’s. The numbers just couldn’t add up.
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Postby Snug » Sat Jan 30, 2010 4:38 am

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_parade (warning some of the pictures contain nudity)

This is the kind of parade/protest i've seen put on in public. Smaller scale usually. But I've seen this kinda thing moving down popular city streets. Where children and many uninterested adults live and were pretty much forced to be around. Including myself.

as for attire. Well Female clothing, Makeup, wigs ect. All Acceptable if done tastefully. But in a lot of cases this is not the case. No family oriented place should have cross dressers present. Its insulting annoying and prob a lil confusing for the youngins.
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Postby Dark-Samus » Sat Jan 30, 2010 11:40 am

First of all if you don't like it or even hate it then you are somewhat of a homophobe.

Second it is a PARADE meaning that all sorts of freaks will be there or do you see any other parade being normally put on clothes and behaving like royalty?

Third many gays are not acting female, it is the way they are, of course some gays are influenced by this thinking that gays should all be femenine, I however am not in any way like the stereotypcial gay, feminine weak walking bitch.

Fourth if you think it is inappropriate for kids to see this then so must any other type of relationship kissing out in public etc etc get as much attention as you have on this.
Otherwise you arejust a hypocrite aswell.

And last, if you straight people can behave as you want why can't we?
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Postby Dark-Samus » Sat Jan 30, 2010 11:40 am

Honestly I have not a clue what you are talking about. Mainly due to living down town, in the middle of down town, a large city. Gay people are the least noticed I'd say. You get alot of freaks, just freaks in general. And they do a whole parade about it trust me. Inner City I see alot of people close to costume wear on a regular basis. As far as the other stuff, seems like you focus in on those things.....?

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Thanks I needed it, I'm so pissed off today at everything, cheers!
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Postby sandra » Sat Jan 30, 2010 6:50 pm

Dark- I'm a good friend, I changed my profile picture just to say CHEERS Dark-Samus! :mrgreen: Now tip it!!!

Yeah sorry but all of this is a bunch of mubo jumbo if you ask me ...it really is. When I go out sometimes, listen, I'm not worrying about who is going to see me when I'm going out the door to one of the clubs (which are wild in the cities), and my attire is not always appropriate for other settings, I don't see how that is any less tastefull as a grown man speaking whichever they want. Infact for a tone of voice to bother someone in itself is ridiculous. I think your idea of tasteful is not 20th century, sorry.
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Postby Dark-Samus » Sun Jan 31, 2010 3:15 am

I think your idea of tasteful is not 20th century, sorry.


I didn't quite understand what you mean by this...? :?

Well I think the difference is that especially if guys makes out or kiss in public, it is way more likely for them to get killed or abused in some way alot more than maybe you and others would have.

Since most humans treats gays like the worst thing ever.

And your pic is lovely, cheers again :mrgreen:
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Postby sandra » Sun Jan 31, 2010 5:42 am

Oh sorry Dark I should have specified who I was directing that to, which was Snug.
Doesn't seem like Snugs idea of what is tasteful is 20th Century, in my opinion.

See in the cities I don't see any of this Dark- Not gay guys sticking out of the crowd, or straight people pointing them out, really it might just have to be the fact that I live right in the middle of Down Town. :?: I don't mind a gay person anymore than a straight person, if someone is trying to learn more about who they are, they make my friends list. If they care little for themselves and more for an image being upheld, throwing you on the foes list. ;) :geek:

As far as Snugs comment


Why in the hell has society turned a blind eye on homosexuality and aloud pornography to roam our streets


For the same reason Justin Timberland brought sexi back. :mrgreen: No really.

I personally believe gays like all other groups of people, have a needed role in consciousness. Think of history, do you realise the sexual freedom and expression, many had little shame, long time ago, people were untainted by sexuality, and alot of their daily lives revolved around it. To be very comfortable sexually is no different than to accept yourself in any other manner....and we are all on a path to relearning that, some of us are on our way kicking and screaming, but thats where its going.

How can you size up someones perception of sexuality and how they incorporate it into their life when it is as sacred as it it? And who am I to try and control that sexual nature of another person...---this is what we are always doing, we will learn how much this is actually impossible. Straight or gay see. Gays have us digging for some of these truths.
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Postby Dark-Samus » Sun Jan 31, 2010 7:20 am

I think that it is more common in big cities than well the country side since most conservatives actually lives as farmers and such kind of life anyway.
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