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Postby sandra » Sat Dec 05, 2009 6:32 pm

No, and its a shame LOL

I'm single and all, but at 26 a one night stand isnt gunna put this fire out :!: and id rather have a spontaneous freaky sex life with one man, not several. whoa i just put it out there huh lol
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Postby mael » Sun Dec 06, 2009 5:19 am

sandra wrote:No, and its a shame LOL

I'm single and all, but at 26 a one night stand isnt gunna put this fire out :!: and id rather have a spontaneous freaky sex life with one man, not several. whoa i just put it out there huh lol


Well, as you say, it's a shame.

I sincerely hope you meet someone with whom you can learn intensively of this most useful matter.

These days more and more I feel people are increasingly isolated from our soul-mates, and it makes me sad. However I try my best in my little corner of the world to improve matters.
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Postby sandra » Sun Dec 06, 2009 10:45 am

yep yep im on my way :mrgreen: yeah isolated from soulmates because we are isolated from ourselves, nothing real comes easy, but thats for our own good.
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Postby mael » Sun Dec 06, 2009 11:22 am

sandra wrote:yep yep im on my way :mrgreen: yeah isolated from soulmates because we are isolated from ourselves, nothing real comes easy, but thats for our own good.


* With someone (a man) who understands you, you can find out who you are, and he will love to show you. He will also grow wiser of himself through shared love.

* In my mind I can see it, but I can describe it (poorly) as the woman being a gate beyond which lies the beauty of who she is. But she can not go through the gate on her own.

* The right man (relatively) will be one who can take you through the gate and you can discover your beauty together.

* And one nice part of this is that you remember everything. And there's much more to learn.

* Doing "it" without love like an animal only leads to disinterest in sex and frustration eventually.

* Just knowing what you are missing is a good incentive to try to find it, whereas not knowing about love - by for example being conned by believing popular media portrayals of intimacy would point to something very special about being human being something like an aching void, which when filled, should provide part of the answer we may ask pertaining to who we are and why we exist.

(I think so anyway).

Good luck.

And what sort of information was it you were hoping for when you joined here?
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Postby sandra » Sun Dec 06, 2009 7:15 pm

well that all sounds good, mael. and really it seems like most things in life without love lead to frustration or just straight disaster. Although finding my soulmate is obviously a goal and a hope with my faith, I also live very presently, personally my belief is that a soul mate will come when I actually do the work and soul searching within myself to deserve one. As I continue to do that, it doesnt mean I wont entertain other options, because I don't deny myself the leanring experience to grow with the current reality of who I am right now.

When I first came to this site many more than 10something yrs ago, I was looking for information on paranormal events, OBE, ufos, orbs and the like. Coming back this time, Im here because in the past this has been a great place to learn about almost everything, and John is an inspiration with everything hes done. I luv the bv
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Postby rath » Wed Dec 09, 2009 10:02 am

mael wrote:
sandra wrote:yep yep im on my way :mrgreen: yeah isolated from soulmates because we are isolated from ourselves, nothing real comes easy, but thats for our own good.


* With someone (a man) who understands you, you can find out who you are, and he will love to show you. He will also grow wiser of himself through shared love.

* In my mind I can see it, but I can describe it (poorly) as the woman being a gate beyond which lies the beauty of who she is. But she can not go through the gate on her own.

* The right man (relatively) will be one who can take you through the gate and you can discover your beauty together.

* And one nice part of this is that you remember everything. And there's much more to learn.

* Doing "it" without love like an animal only leads to disinterest in sex and frustration eventually.

* Just knowing what you are missing is a good incentive to try to find it, whereas not knowing about love - by for example being conned by believing popular media portrayals of intimacy would point to something very special about being human being something like an aching void, which when filled, should provide part of the answer we may ask pertaining to who we are and why we exist.

(I think so anyway).

Good luck.

And what sort of information was it you were hoping for when you joined here?


Your so gay mael.

:o GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY.
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Postby sandra » Wed Dec 09, 2009 1:02 pm

rath i just want to put you in a head lock. for goodness sakes, relax a mintue.
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Postby shadowfx » Mon Dec 14, 2009 11:17 am

Careful Sandra.... Rath likes that and would find it exciting. ;) :lol:
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Postby sandra » Mon Dec 14, 2009 12:12 pm

hmmm ur prolly right lmao

how about careful rath I'll try and kick you where it hurts...... ;) ;) :lol:
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Postby Lashmar » Mon Dec 14, 2009 12:38 pm

No. Rath likes to Wank over drawings. I though everyone knew that; Shadow should have because he posted on the Sexy thread when rath posted drawing porn.


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