sheye wrote:I 'm not waiting for anything...I'm far too realistic these days to think that I'll find the kind of romantic love that I would like to have.
* I'm sorry to hear you say that.
mael, I have a question. How do you feel about one of your women having as many "lovers" as you have ?
* While she's with me? I wouldn't tolerate it. If she'd had lots of lovers before me it wouldn't necessarily bother me.
I once knew a woman who had 6 on the go.....she got her yard done,her house renovated, her car fixed..all for free. All she had to do was give each one the occasional sexual act ,and then she tossed them aside when their usefulness to her was over.
Had very little respect for this woman,and so did many of her "lovers" once they found out what the real picture was. She was a real piece of work....and from what I've heard a few of these guys are planning a little retaliation. I don't think some men take kindly to being used for 1000's of dollars work of renovations, only to find out the person they did it for (cause they genuinely cared), was all about what she could get...and mislead them terribly.
* Not my type by the sounds of it.
I'm not saying you are being dishonest to these women, just curious as to how you would feel if they had a similiar sexual life to your own.
* Well ... I think I've answered that. And no! I don't lie to any woman I'm with. That's the single most important thing that has made having multiple women possible.
* Now can you explain why some women will tolerate their man having other girls? I gather not many men can get away with it.
"Hogamus higamus man is polygamous. Higamus hogumus woman is monogomous.