The Black Vault

yeah..
I never listened..arrogant..naive fool..me


Also..the truth is..most women REALLY DON'T KNOW that most guys eventually cheat.(because men secretly..in their secret 'men's club' consider it part of being a "MAN")

The one's who get caught are the one's who let it get out of hand

Our society lies about it.
Men lie to women about it.
It's an open secret amongst them.

It sets up a false expectation.

Women do not realize how rampant it is..because it's all kept under the rug.

Men KNOW..they KNOW most men cheat..heck most guys reading this, they themselves probably have, or are right now..or haven't been in a long term relationship yet(one that's at least a few years old)..so they don't know that they probably will.

I'm telling you most women DO NOT realize just what DOGS most men are.

Let's face it , it's a very rare guy that is in a longterm relationship that isn't cheating because of his morals or his deep love for his woman.
No, it's usually because he is too shy or nobody is interested.


Women don't realize it's just a big game to men.

I didn't.
And because I didn't I got hurt worse than I might have when I realized it all..like finding out there is no Santa

I do now.

You are right! Most men will eventually cheat, or would given the opportunity.

I know so many otherwise good guys who have cheated, or I know would given the opportunity.

I.

Haha
Funny story
Ok:

I'm on a bus this one time, and it's a long ride so I'm sleeping. I wake up to these two girls on in the seat in front of me looking at me giggling. So I wake up, and we chat it up and all that,both of them at the same time are mega hitting on me, and eventually one goes and grabs my package.

Now..

Unfortunately at this point in time I had a girlfriend, the same one I lived with for like 8 months. I did the right thing, and said that I wouldn't let that happen.. They were disappointed, but still where chatting.. Got off at the same stop as them and everything.

Now to think, if I wasn't going out with her, the fun I may have had? I don't know. They may have just been teasing, one or both of them might have actually been looking for a good time. But to this day I have no idea, because I didn't cheat.


However, most guys will.

BUT, once you introduce alcohol it's my experience that a lot of girls will too. Most, in fact.

It's fricken crazy..society needs to be more honest about it..less people would get so BADLY hurt
illusion shattering all over

And to be honest women are terrible!
They will flirt with a guy and not care at all if he is taken..rub on him and bat theri eyes.

It's awful


How does love even sruvive these days?

My big mistake is that I actually loved/love my H.
And i love my little family.
I love my fmaily like it were a person unto itself.
Guess he didn't love our family like I did and do.
I have always cherished it and wanted to protect it.
Hope he does now.
He almost lost us...killed our little family..took us for granted
Time will tell.

anyhoo..gotta go do housework..yuck

take care

Yes, you too.

so CNN reports this morning that Steve PcNair recorded a suicide prevention public service announcement just before he was killed that had yet to be aired ...

if only it had aired and his mistress had seen it *sigh*

or if only he'd made a murder-suicide prevention public service message and and his mistress had seen that ...



okay, a little tasteless but wtf, it's friday

bionic wrote:And to be honest women are terrible!
They will flirt with a guy and not care at all if he is taken..rub on him and bat theri eyes.

It's awful

It's awful you're right. I can never happen to me.


You watch. I've got a date tonight bet it happens to me. That would be unfair.

"Must read After My Death"
http://www.mustreadaftermydeath.com/MRAMD/home.html

how does love even stand a chance in such a vain, shallow, selfish world?

bionic wrote:Also..the truth is..most women REALLY DON'T KNOW that most guys eventually cheat.(because men secretly..in their secret 'men's club' consider it part of being a "MAN")

Men KNOW..they KNOW most men cheat..heck most guys reading this, they themselves probably have, or are right now..or haven't been in a long term relationship yet(one that's at least a few years old)..so they don't know that they probably will.

I'm telling you most women DO NOT realize just what DOGS most men are.

Your incredibly unfair, unjust and bias onions about men aren’t looking too hot either BTW.

You paint us ALL with the same brush when there’s no reason too even though YOU are the one that’s wrong.

The worst thing to be is a white, middle-aged, man with a half decent background. You will get nowhere in life if you are in the group.

A man can’t be a man without being called sexist or something like that. I’m stuffed to be honest because I will, and do very often, take over situation just because I can’t follow people I don’t respect and even then I have to be learning something from them.

Men like me are looked down upon because my views are seen as `old fashioned` or `sexist/anti-feminist`, witch is crap because my views are "shut up, do your job, if your good enough you’ll go up, if not then F*** off because you’re not going anywhere just because you are a Woman/Black/Asian/queer/Russian or any other group you can think of."

Basically women like you, ones that are angry with one man because of that mans stupidity, have made my life so much harder than it needs to be.

If women were treated the same way that men were in films, programs and on the news there’d be uproar.

Yes fine women aren’t treated well in most parts of the world but for fucks sake stop blaming us for it. We didn’t do F*** all to you so why are you acting like we did.


There are lots of things that you say that get me going but I hold my tongue most of the time; that just got to me.

There are somethings you say that are truely hurtful, and I don't take offence at anything really so that should be a sign at how some comments come off , like painting every single man in the world with the same brush.

Putting the word most rather than all doesn't make much odds really because you're thinking all men are the same.


Edit: Missed the whole point.

Well I personally agree with her, not every single man perhaps..

But only the mentally diligent are the exception, and both you and I know quite well that's not a very large number of people.

If you were to take 100 men who are in a relationship, and present them with a drunk, hot blond chick and I bet you at least 80 of them are willing to cheat, especially the ones that fathom themselves as intelligent, and especially if they deem the situation as one that they can utilize and have no one know.

Tairaa wrote:If you were to take 100 men who are in a relationship, and present them with a drunk, hot blond chick and I bet you at least 80 of them are willing to cheat,

Don't have a good class of men over there eh?

Soon as they're drunk you don't touch 'em, apart form being wrong (a word that as a man I should know ), it will get very messy and that's not good.

Rape and boyfriend comes to mind with drunk girls.