Your ex sounds like a total douchebag.
I can't stand how he has blown off his daughter.
He needs to STEP UP.
For real and NOT half heartedly.
Frankly..his soul depends on it.
She's his daughter for a reason.
It's one thing for men and women exes to go at each other.
It's whole 'nother thing to blow off your kid and only want them around when they are 'convenient'
As for the eating disorder..does she have it, too? (mothers and daughters tend to share this disorder..it gets passed on..plus you mentioned she is a figure skater..I know that..along with gymnists and dancers and such, that it can be a common thing for them)
If that's the case..
I hope you BOTH are at least trying to get some kind of protein health shake in you once a day.
Though, I realize for you both..an eating disorder seems like the LEAST of your problems.
Ironically, they say a near starvation diet..if it is also a high nutritional one..actually is suppose to be one of the secrets to a a longer life...http://www.nytimes.com/2006/10/31/healt ... 1agin.html
(I don't know about you..but I am NOT seeking a longer 'life'..not a goal of mine...lol)
“Whether you sniff it smoke it eat it or shove it up your ass the result is the same: addiction.”
― William S. Burroughs
(love&forgive yourself..and everyone else)