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The United States of America Is A Sexually Repressed Society.
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wobjr83055
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Nobody is "fornicating" anymore, especially women. I have come to the conclusion that women unlike men do not like or enjoy sexual intercourse. Women in their middle to late teens and into there 20's seem to be sexually active but for totally different reasons. In this age group the only common thing they share with men of the same age is both groups are curious about sex. Once, both groups have experienced sex. Men view sex as a recreational pleasure. Women now view sex as a dress rehearsal for having children. The strange thing is that women are "hard wired" for this kind of behavior and they are not aware of this!
 
Once they have children they have the potential to go without sexual relations with a man for the rest of there lives. Unless they want more children. If women desire to have sexual relations they are more likely to have it with another woman. There innate ability to socialize especially with other women increases the tendency of having sexual relations with other women.
 
Since American society is based on contradictory beliefs, it is socially acceptable for women to cry but not men. it is socially acceptable for a group of women to go shopping or have dinner together.  If a group of men do the same thing they might be labeled as "gay." It is only socially acceptable for men to gather for hunting trips (this includes power lunches) and sporting events.
 
Women by nature are "control freaks". They view the act of sexual intercourse as an aggressive act that they cannot control. The act of sexual penetration to a woman is a "violent act" that is similar to being stabbed with a knife. Whether it is direct or indirect women seem to have internalized a warped value which allows many women to have the belief that "if you enjoy sex your a whore." This belief is very corrosive when trying to have a relationship with a man. It seems that men get emotionally close to a woman through sexual contact. Women in general detest this aspect of men. They prefer to get emotionally close by being verbal.
 
When a man's wife or significant other becomes a mother, most men now take a secondary role with regards to family life. This is because women are hard wired to make sure that their children survive. Since this takes so much time and energy to raise children, she unknowingly sacrifices sexual relations with her male partner, and the thought of having a neglected relationship never crosses her mind until it is too late.
 
Most men cannot understand why the frequency of sex has diminished because they cannot conceive of the idea that her maternal instincts has surfaced big time. All they can remember is the woman before having children. Eventually, frustration and resentment enters into the mindset of most men. This is one of the main reasons why they stray or cheat. They don't understand what is going on. What is even stranger is that the relationship between a man and a woman now morphs into a relationship that resembles that of a brother and sister. No normal man wants this, but women seem to be quite comfortable with such a relationship.
 
Since American society roots for the underdog especially women who are considered the weaker of the two sexes any extramarital affair on the part of a man is viewed as taboo in our repressed society. No matter how justified a man might be in pursing an affair, society as a whole especially the American justice system will "always" side with the woman.
 
Women do have extramarital affairs outside of there marriage or relationship, their sexual exploits are ,basically, used as a means to an end. Women are very practical when it comes to sexual relations. For example, they have sexual relations to advance their careers. I realize that men may do the same thing but this is basically a strong survival instinct that women possess.
 
Most women do not realize that the majority of men are scared of women. It seems in today's society if you look at a woman the wrong way you might be charged with sexual harassment or rape. This is a stigma that most men can never get rid of. Women have totally confused the average man. She wants to be treated as an equal and at the same time she likes it when a  man opens the door for her. The question that has to be asked is it right for women to want the best of both worlds?
 
As a result most men in order to satisfy there sexual desires go to other men to be satisfied. Men feel this is better than having an affair with another woman because in case she gets wind that he is having an affair perhaps knowing the affair is with a man would not be perceived as a threat to her. It is unfortunate that the majority of women do not realize this.
 
Women today have lost their femininity. They have no idea of how to act like a lady. Today's women do their best to look like, act like and behave like men. What normal man wants to have a meaningful relationship with a woman that acts like a man.
 
Today's psychologists do not want to analyze such topics because it is not politically correct. These so called experts have done more to confuse the sexes than to help them. Sex is a major component in driving the capitalistic economy. People purchase things because of there sex appeal from cars to toothpaste. As a result psychologists do not want to reveal the "dirty little secrets" about the sexual relations between men and women because the true revelations of such acts would have an adverse impact on the economy. In conclusion men an women live in a fantasy sexual world that never existed and will never exist but it is heavily promoted by the capitalistic economy.
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wobjr83055,

 

Did you go to a public school...get a public school education ..by way of movies and television. A television and movie education in "Oil Shortage " Thinking??

Do you even have a clue about what I am describing here??

I don't know not am I particularly interested in where you have been hanging out..but I have dated older women for most of my life. I have not found it difficult nor complex to get a woman to take off her clothes. There is no oil shortage nor oil shortage thinking going on at this address.

For many women sex to them is power...the one innate power they think they can control. Most of them cannot conceive of a man turning them down.

I do not find a woman's sexuality to be life itself. Hence it is not power over me. I can turn it down when I want or need to turn it down as I know it is not a commodity in short supply out here among the two legged wildlife...male and female both.

If you cannot discipline yourself to think this kind of thing through ..women can see and identify this in you...a kind of desperation. They are not attracted to a desperate male...with an oil shortage mentality. This does not exhibit to them confidence.

 

What I am telling you here is not Politically Correct...and as to psychologists...they can take a hike on this one as well. Do you have any idea or concept of how many psychologists are in the advertising business of packaging and marketing products to people who emote and don't think. Products for the sexually desperate to keep them on the treadmill for  those psychologists and the products they are marketing/advertising inside your pocketbook.

Who cares about politically correct. That is just a scam..for censorship and control...dumbing down of people to prevent thinking. Snap out of it.

 

I can get women to take off their clothes...what is difficult to get from a woman is something which will last much longer than sex ...much more valuable than sex. It takes a lot more work and commitment/dedication to get than mere sex with a  woman. Most women have never been taught this commodity...so how would they even have a clue. The sad truth is that even most males themselves have not been taught this...but blindsided by an "Oil Shortage mentality...by females and the advertisers in an ersatz social structure.

 

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Hello:

I apologize for not responding sooner to your rebuttle.  From what you have described of yourself you seem to be the exception to the rule. You appear to have a special way with women. Henry Kissinger once said "power is an aphrodisiac". You did not mention it but I am going on the presumption you may have a career power position which may attract women and cause them to be somewhat compliant.

The gist of my article basically centered on the fact concerning marriage or a long relationship. My question to you is have you ever been married and do you have any children. If you have you should have understood my position.

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wobjr83055 said
Hello:

I apologize for not responding sooner to your rebuttle.  From what you have described of yourself you seem to be the exception to the rule. You appear to have a special way with women. Henry Kissinger once said "power is an aphrodisiac". You did not mention it but I am going on the presumption you may have a career power position which may attract women and cause them to be somewhat compliant.

The gist of my article basically centered on the fact concerning marriage or a long relationship. My question to you is have you ever been married and do you have any children. If you have you should have understood my position.

Take Care

wobjr83055, 

 

I do not have a special way with women. Not at all. I just know a little about how they work  or do not work. All of them no ...many of them yes. But not all. You do not need to know how all of them work at all.

 

In the world of women....what do you do if you take the sex away from them?? What innate and intrinsic skill or ability do many of them have??

I 'll put this another way. In daily programming on the television ..these talk show formats directed mostly to women ....what happens if you take the sex and sexuality out of the program??? What  or how much program is left over then??? Not much if at all.

I just happen to know a number of women who's major skill set in life is taking their clothes off. This is how they have worked their way through the food chain. Anything else would take real work and commitment. Real life skills.

 

Not married and no children. I  know many males who are married and who have an oil shortage. It is not a matter of marriage either.

The women I know are not compliant per se...that is also not it. Much of it with a man is just plain olde confidence. And no I do not  have a powerful job position.

I am a machinist in a local shipyard here. I am also a member of a specially trained team who installs the fuel cells into nuclear reactors. This means that I take risks for my monies.

 

I am not interested in taking first place risks for my monies and then coming in second, third, or  further place down the line to a woman or a woman and children. I expect a woman to find the way to bring me in first place too. And it is not sex.

I am not telling a woman to bring the children in last place..but don't forget to bring me in first place too.

 

Now how many women out here ..raised on a steady diet of talk shows...romance novels...home and garden television, magazines, peer group pressure...feminism...how many women do you think even have a clue of what I am talking???? This verses expecting ..even demanding a man default over to their requirements and belief systems??? Think about it and then look at the men out here and what is happening to many of them.

What I am talking about requires commitment from a woman...not a woman  giving me the appearance  of commitment while they are really running their own private programs with my risk taking. Understand now??

When you can explain this to a woman and make it stick...you are on the road to understanding something about being a man out here.

 

I have taught a number of young men to put their women in a box..in a corner by teaching them that when their women come out with that stock/standard technique..of....

"You come to me for only one thing..."

This is standard strategy among many women and they communicate this among themselves in order to get a man to be more compliant to their belief systems...through "Oil Shortage " mentality.

 

What I taught these men to do is cut their women off quickly by forcefully telling them to stop....that they can get women to take off their clothes. And that they knew women for whom their only talent/skill set  in life was taking off their clothes. That their is no oil shortage in their lives.

The very interesting thing about all these young lads is that their women never tried this strategy again. The women were accustomed to men never being able to reply back to them because of Oil Shortage programming among men. A false dichotomy ..a false paradigm going on out here.

 

All I have to do to know how false this template is ..is go through the checkout stands and look at the titles on the magazines. Then think to  yourself ..what happens if you take the sex and sexuality out of these womens magazines and books?? What happens is that  you will have no program and on audience. No magazines...no books to sell.

That is when you realize that many many  women only have sex and sexuality to control men.

With many of them...when you let them know with confidence..that their sex and sexuality is not power over you....it changes the whole game..the whole perspective. The whole strategy.

 

But if you are sexually desperate...they can see this miles away in the dark....like Radar.

 

Hope this helps you,

Orangetom

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orangetom1999 said
wobjr83055,

 

Did you go to a public school...get a public school education ..by way of movies and television. A television and movie education in "Oil Shortage " Thinking??

Do you even have a clue about what I am describing here??

 As I was reading this thread and then seen orangetom...how did I know this was coming.. those exact starting words. ROFL entertainment!!!

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