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Is Sex Addiction Real?
March 16, 2010
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If your forearm looks like popeye's then you probally have a sex addiction. 😀

March 18, 2010
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Hmmm then I believe most tennis players are really out there! Laugh Laugh

Truth doesn´t control you, you control it...

March 18, 2010
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yeah..well their forarma can't hold a candle to....

ummm...

i give up

March 18, 2010
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"sheye" wrote: yeah..well their forarma can't hold a candle to....I give up

* Psssst! Sheye. If you've got massive forearms then you're doing it wrong. 😮 😕

I've got massive forearms ..... well Embarassed well , not that big .... .

March 18, 2010
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* Psssst! Sheye. If you've got massive forearms then you're doing it wrong.

I've got massive forearms ..... well well , not that big ....

damn..I think I love you...for stating the obvious??

peace out....

March 26, 2010
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😆 😆 😆

March 27, 2010
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You guys ALL had alot of GREAT things to say on this subject, made me think about alot of things. And I'm glad everyone took time to write down some serious notes on this subject, thanks.

I at times think people use sexual addiction as a scapegoat, and the problem I see, many times these people are actually treated for specific things that are believed to solve these 'addictions', yet I really think the lable sex addiciton is deceiving as well. I think the cause comes out as sexual addiction, but I believe at times it stems from fear, of having lost themselves expressively in other areas, and they realise sexual expression is something they can indulge with less fear of being hurt through their expression, and in turn become the person to hurt others in that process. Its not ok to be decpetive in a relationship that you have made a committment, however its interesting to me how personally people can be hurt by a spouse who cheats, when sometimes, I wonder, how do we weigh deception. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually, sexually- We can be hurt by others in many ways pretty much, but in a relationship, when someone cheats, we consider that a deal breaker, was it the deal maker to begin with then? What happens when someone is being emotionally manipulative throughout an entire relationship? People stay many times. But if someone cheats once, they are ready to get out of dodge. What this makes me ponder, is how central is sex in a relationship? What type of impacts does sex actually have on society as a whole? What do you guys think about some of that?

bionic, you wrote 'theres a space between extremes'- I tend to agree, and that was a cool way of putting it.

greeney2, I think the commandments are important, and not just for 'weak' people.
There is good reasons for them.

And mael, with all your girlfriends, I'm surprised you chimed in on this.

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
astonishment. “I never heard of such a thing!”
“—but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s
memory works both ways.”
— Lewis Carroll, Through the Looking-Glass

March 27, 2010
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some very interesting and compelling thoughts sandra???

sexuality is the foundation of creating life...

that says alot ..in itself.....but what is life??...without love and understanding...

sex...is..and can..be...as we all know...just sex..

quite honestly..I can have great sex all by myself

its too easy..given the fact,..that I was given an imagination...

but....

it does create life...not just in, species...but many forms of life...

(not talking plant life here...where reproductiopn...is a reality ..of a different type of...perpetuation.)

I had written a very long extensive post on this topic...but it didn't make it to cyber space...for unknown reasons to me...but common knowledge to higher powers.....I'm guessing on that.

did I actually just post this ...drunk ???

yep...sure did.....oh damn...

somebody shoot me...

March 27, 2010
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I have plural women, but I don't 'cheat' on any of them. No secrets- no problems. 😎

I like sex (obviously) but I think my approach is more towards altruistic than for my own satisfactin and benefit. 😀

March 27, 2010
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Yeah right maelstrom Laugh 😉

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