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Is Sex Addiction Real?
April 17, 2010
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He already knows what I say here..just like he knows I know that most of his friends, everyone he works with..his whole family knew that he was cheatign on me.

If I am to deal with that, he can deal with this.

Love is a complex thing..geniune relationships are complex ...maybe you don't understand these things, really

hmmm..perhaps I understand more than you may realize?

I just want you to have a wonderful romantic relationship with a guy that wants to have that with you as well Bionic..

I see no chance in hell of that happening in the current one you are in..

why don't you do both of you a favour.

and start fresh...

cause you're marraige is looking like way too many I've seen...and guess what...it won't get better..

till you two actually talk it through..truly forgive and move on .."with fresh attitude"....or let it die gracefully..and let both of you move onto..someone who will actually LOVE you...totally.....this will not be any sort of "healthy marraige"

I know I would n't want to be in a marraige where my spouse is calling me down at every turn..and all the people I work with..just want to make me feel like a cheater..and the worst scum on earth...

fck..I'd prolly hightail it out there..and start fresh somewhere else..

But the FACT of the matter is..way more men would do that..if it weren't for the finances getting all tangled up..and totally destroying their chance for a "new start"

same with women.....too many women stay for the "financial" security"..which will neva replace "real love"..

(sighs).....its a pretty sad situation out there in the marriage department...for both guys and gals...(even the guy with guy/girl with girl marraiges go through the same sort of problems)

communication and honesty...is key....and for myself personally I have come to realize...that I absolutely need to RESPECT the man I would marry...in very many wayz

(respect doesn't mean hes perfect...just that I truly admire him..and want to support him in every way possible.....and I'm not talking about financially..though I would do that in a heartbeat....if the situation called for it.)

April 17, 2010
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If someone cheated on me, his life would be forever in my list and I would throw him out like a garbage.
I don't give anyone a second chance.

Truth doesn´t control you, you control it...

April 17, 2010
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Well that's YOU Sheye and what's right for YOU may not be what's right for ME.
Things take time..whether we make it or not..there is a process.
I am pragmatic and do not believe in romantic notions..less now than I even did before.
Look...
You are entitled to live YOUR life as you wish and you are entitled to your opinions.
As I am mine.

DarkSamus..
People are so good at saying what they would do..until it happens to them..then they are tested.
Your energy feels younger to me..so..
If it hasn't happened yet..most probably your time will come (you will cheat or be cheated on, both sides land up hurting for it)..if that's the case..when it happens you will remember me and my posts and your posts here..and hopefully some of what I have posted will give you a sense of solidarity and help you to feel less alone with it.

Willie Wonka quotes..
What is this Wonka, some kind of funhouse?
Why? Are you having fun?
A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams

April 17, 2010
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But this is a thread about sexual addiction and not cheating, per say..my smart alec comment about my H in my song tribute to Mael, and Sheye's questioning, and my answering have taken it off track a bit..so any more I have to say about infidelity, my H's or anyone's I will try my best to keep on my "douchebag" thread. (except the occasional smart alec comment here and there)
That way, for those who it might make too uncomfortable..they will know to avoid that thread

Willie Wonka quotes..
What is this Wonka, some kind of funhouse?
Why? Are you having fun?
A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams

April 17, 2010
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"bionic" wrote: But this is a thread about sexual addiction and not cheating, per say..my smart alec comment about my H in my song tribute to Mael, and Sheye's questioning, and my answering have taken it off track a bit..so any more I have to say about infidelity, my H's or anyone's I will try my best to keep on my "douchebag" thread. (except the occasional smart alec comment here and there)
That way, for those who it might make too uncomfortable..they will know to avoid that thread

This is my thread I started, and I am moderator of modern relationships and social issues, you are absolutely fine of course! What wrong is there in the truth?
What you shared was the truth of how you feel and what is going on in your life, someone like me couldn't appreciate more. My only advice, which is clear you don't need anyways but I'll still say it for the sake of truth, is to not take advice from someone who knows near to nothing about respect, ...about love and wisdom.

This thread was built for these purposes(my intent), of what most relationships are experiencing and enduring, whether broken or built upon, the truth and the lies of them, and our honest perspectives of how they effect our lives and society, which you have added graciously to.
And I would ask that you do not refrain from adding more of that, if you further wish, whenever.

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
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“—but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s
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April 17, 2010
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"Dark-Samus" wrote: If someone cheated on me, his life would be forever in my list and I would throw him out like a garbage.
I don't give anyone a second chance.

Now are you sure about that? Now what if they were really good?
Really sneaky, like sheye? Laugh

Although shes more like a black cat walking accross my lawn. :geek:
I got you. Laugh

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
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April 17, 2010
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neva eva trust anyone who says they love "unconditionally"..

they know not REAL LOVE...

it has conditions.....and always will

I stand by that honesty...now...and forever...

now..back to ......

Who's calling who a douchebag???

Did someone tell me..that Jesus actually screwed women and men....

cause they have "special" bible that others don't know about??? 🙄 🙄 🙄 🙄

damni t..that Lucifer just doesn't give up ..on perverting any kind of truth...

so that ...God may LOVE ALL SIN..UNCONDITIONALLY..

pffft....wow...

they need better teachers and mods on here...

don't you think???

when we are trying to get down to TRUTH..

a least a lil bit?

April 17, 2010
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Sandra,
You are a kind person and a brave one.
I realize Sheye is just in one of her spiteful moods.
I saw her striking out all over the place the last few days, here.
You know her better than me..I see you two have a sort of history..so i try to stay out of ya'lls stuff in hopes she won't come after me, too, so much..
I am not as brave as you
Thanks Lady..you are one

Willie Wonka quotes..
What is this Wonka, some kind of funhouse?
Why? Are you having fun?
A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams

April 17, 2010
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"sheye" wrote: ]Did someone tell me..that Jesus actually screwed women and men....

cause they have "special" bible that others don't know about???

Look at the filth that comes out of your mouth, Like I said, I got you.
And this time, I'll shake everything you got. Which is nothing I haven't had 100times more.
You mistake ego, for the truth. Now let me have your sweet-tarts. Laugh

And stay on topic while you're doing it, or I'll delete your posts. :mrgreen:

“Living backwards!” Alice repeated in great
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“—but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s
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April 17, 2010
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Who's calling who a douchebag???

I was refering to my Douchebag thread, this section..it's on cheaters.

Is that why you are thrashing about on this?
It hits home?
Cheater? Cheated on?

You are in a very angry mood these last few days on the board.
What is up?

Willie Wonka quotes..
What is this Wonka, some kind of funhouse?
Why? Are you having fun?
A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.
We are the music makers, we are the dreamers of dreams

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